By Ethan Connors & Kelly Boche
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October 8, 2025
October 8, 2025 Principal’s Ponderings Have you ever noticed how a small act of kindness can completely change the mood of a day? A simple smile, a “thank you,” or asking someone how they are can ripple through our school community in ways we might not even realize. At our school, we see these moments every day; when a student helps a classmate, when a teacher celebrates effort over perfection, or when families support one another in small but meaningful ways. These moments remind us that learning isn’t just about academics; it’s about building a caring, connected community. This week, I encourage all of us, students, staff, and families, to intentionally look for opportunities to show kindness and encouragement. Notice when someone is working hard, celebrate their efforts, and take time to lift each other up. Even the smallest gesture can have a big impact, helping someone feel seen, supported, and valued. These are the moments that create a positive school environment where students can thrive academically, socially, and emotionally. As we continue our journey together, let’s remember that every day is an opportunity to grow, not just in knowledge, but in virtue. By spreading kindness, practicing patience, and celebrating progress, we make our school a place where everyone feels welcome and inspired. Let’s make this week one filled with encouragement, positivity, and joy. Watch how those little acts of care create a big difference for our students and our community. ********************************************************************************************* WHAT’S NEW ESA Statement We are reaching out to ask for your help in sharing the impact of the Education Savings Account (ESA) on your family. Your story is a powerful way to show how this program is opening new doors for students and helping families provide the best possible educational experience for their children. We’d love for you to share how your child’s opportunities have grown since moving to a private school with the support of the ESA. For example, you could also share how your child’s learning, confidence, or engagement has changed, and how the ESA has allowed your family to access these opportunities. To make it easy to share your story, please use this Google Form: Submit Your ESA Story . Your responses will help demonstrate the real benefits of the ESA program for families like yours.Please now that your name will be included in this response. Thank you for taking the time to tell your story. We can’t wait to hear it! ********************************************************************************************* October is the Month of Mary As we step into October, we embrace a special tradition in our Catholic faith, the Month of Mary. This month is dedicated to reflecting on the life of the Blessed Virgin Mary, her unwavering faith, and her example of love and service. Mary’s humility and devotion remind us of the importance of kindness, prayer, and compassion in our daily lives. Throughout October, we encourage our students and families to take a few moments each day to honor Mary, whether through prayer, reflection, or small acts of goodness toward others. In our classrooms, we will be sharing stories about Mary, discussing her virtues, and finding ways to live out her example in our school community. May this month inspire all of us to grow in faith, hope, and love, just as Mary did. Let us continue to support one another in our journey of learning, faith, and service. ********************************************************************************************* Out of Uniform Update We have a small change to our out-of-uniform schedule this month; thank you for your understanding! Friday, 10/10 – Assumption High School Homecoming All students may be out-of-uniform if they wear Red, White, Black, or AHS gear to support Assumption’s homecoming game. Friday, 10/17 – Panther Perk Reward Students who submitted Panther Perk orders from 10/1–10/7 will earn an out-of-uniform day. (This is one week later than usual because of the AHS homecoming.) All perks support Home & School. ********************************************************************************************* Out-of-Uniform Guidelines (Handbook, pg. 27): Leggings or bike shorts may only be worn under dresses or skirts Skirts, dresses, and shorts must be 2 inches above the knee or longer . No spaghetti straps; sleeveless tops must have shoulder seams 1½–2 inches wide . No bare midriffs; logos and slogans must be appropriate. All other dress code rules remain in effect. Thank you for helping our students show school spirit while following dress expectations! ********************************************************************************************* Earring Guidelines While we agree that earrings that hang below the earlobes can be very cute; especially seasonal designs like a cat in a pumpkin, they are not permitted under our current uniform policy. To ensure consistency with our dress code, students should wear earrings that stay close to the earlobe, as defined in our policy as “stud earrings”. We appreciate your understanding and support in helping us maintain our school’s uniform standards. ********************************************************************************************* Childcare/Before and Aftercare Updates Small Beginnings will be open for regular hours on Monday, October 13th during the inservice day! We can’t wait to welcome our little learners into their routine and watch them continue to grow and explore. As we look forward to all the fall festivities, please note that on Thursday, October 24th, for Trunk or Treat night, Small Beginnings and Aftercare will close early, at 4:30 PM. This will give families the opportunity to enjoy the fun and excitement of our Halloween celebrations. Thank you for your understanding and support as we continue to make this season a memorable one for our students! ********************************************************************************************* Home and School The next Home and School meeting will be on Monday October 13th at 6 pm in the Media Center. We hope to see you there! October Agenda Prayer Introductions Principal report Teacher rep report Volunteer coordinator report-Jescie Hospitality report-Ashley Conferences dinner Panther Perks updates-Megan Fundraisers/Events Trunk or Treat Ladies Night Bingo Block party debrief Panther perks for December ***************************************************************************************** Ladies Night Bingo Ladies Bingo Night Thursday November 13th 6-9 p.m., Doors open at 5 p.m. LNB Online Registration Link LNB Flyer ********************************************************************************************* School Directory We have been made aware that there are some issues updating PowerSchool for the directory, so we are not going to send it out until they have been resolved. ********************************************************************************************* New Program for 5th - 8th Grade Attention all 5th-8th graders! Beginning in October St Paul's will be starting a new program called Pathfinders. Pathfinders is designed to help students discern their gifts and learn about vocations. Monthly sessions will include activities, a Saint of the month, speakers and great discussion. Pathfinders will be held on the third Monday of each month after school in McEleney Hall. Our first meeting will be Monday October 20th from 3:15-4:15. The theme will be ’Sharing your Gifts’. We will do a gifts inventory, learn about our Saint of the Month, Carlo Acutis and hear from Deacon Ryan Burchett. It will be a great time! We ask that if your child will be coming you sign up using the signup genius by October 19th. I am happy to take students over to aftercare when the session is done as long as you indicate that in your RSVP before the class. If you have any questions feel free to reach out to Sarah Kahler at kahler.sj@gmail.com. We look forward to learning more about our faith together at Pathfinders! ********************************************************************************************* Guess Who's Coming to Dinner! Saturday, October 18th Meet in Denning Hall at 5:30 pm to be assigned where you'll be going for dinner! This event is for adults of any age, individuals and couples. The exciting thing about this night is getting to sit down at a meal with a completely random group (the names will be drawn from a hat) in attendance at the host's home. We look forward to intermingling and intergenerational dialogue. All are welcome! Please sign up here by this Saturday: https://forms.gle/sRpxPMPGRB6Gf9F47 Flyer ********************************************************************************************* STILL CURRENT Attendance Matters for Student Success Regular attendance is one of the most important factors in your child’s success, both in school and beyond. Research shows that the more a student attends school, the stronger their learning and long-term outcomes will be. Students who miss 10% or more of school days are considered chronically absent. Families of students who reach this threshold will receive a letter from the school notifying them of this status. Plans can be made based on this status and we are required to file truancy once a threshold is reached, and no improvement has been made. That said, we know that absences happen. When your child is sick, they should absolutely stay home to recover. If your child is absent for a medical reason and you provide a doctor’s note, those absences will not count toward chronic absenteeism. Thank you for your ongoing partnership in supporting strong attendance at St. Paul the Apostle School. Together, we can help every student build a foundation for lifelong success! ********************************************************************************************* AI Use on Student Devices We want to keep you updated that AI tools have been removed from student devices here at school. While these programs can sometimes be helpful, we’ve found they are not appropriate for everyday student use during the school day. We encourage you to help us by monitoring technology use at home as well. Many devices and apps now have built-in AI features, and students can be curious about exploring them. Please take a moment to talk with your child about responsible technology use and set limits that work best for your family. Together, we can help guide our students toward safe, balanced, and thoughtful use of technology. Thank you for partnering with us in this important effort! ********************************************************************************************* School Calendar Please make sure to check out our school calendar for upcoming events: https://www.stpaulcatholicschool.org/school-calendar ********************************************************************************************* Picture Retakes School picture retakes will be on Tuesday, Oct. 14 at 8AM in the Media Center. They will go until 8:45. If your child needs a retake, they may come to school in a non-uniform top, but must change into a uniform top after their picture has been taken. ********************************************************************************************* Free College Planning Event Tue. Oct. 7th at Bettendorf High Auditorium at 7:00pm Wed. Oct. 15th at Assumption High Auditorium at 7:00pm Are you starting to think about college planning and how to make it affordable? Join us next week for a free, high-impact workshop designed to help families understand how to save thousands on college costs and avoid the most common mistakes in the process. Presented by nationally recognized college planning author and expert Jeannie Burlowski this session is packed with practical, actionable strategies for families with students in middle school and high school. All parents and students are welcome. ********************************************************************************************* Trunk or Treat Home and School would like to invite all school families and all parish members to Trunk or Treat on Friday October 24th! This is a fun event for the whole family! There is no cost for this event. Click HERE to trick or treat or to hand out candy. Kids remember to dress up in your favorite costume and bring a bag to collect goodies! Trunk or Treat Flyer ********************************************************************************************* Family Pumpkin Decorating Contest at Trunk or Treat! Get ready for some fall fun! We're excited to invite all school families to participate in our Family Pumpkin Decorating Contest! How it works: Decorate a pumpkin as a family - be as creative, spooky, silly, or unique as you’d like! You can carve, paint, dress up, or accessorize your pumpkin. Anything goes (as long as it's school-appropriate). Pumpkin Drop-Off: Bring your decorated pumpkin at the end of the school day on October 24th up until 5:30pm (when trunk or treat begins). We'll have a special display area where everyone can admire the amazing creations! Please make sure your pumpkin is labeled with your family name and categories you would like your pumpkin to be entered in. Voting & Prizes: Families, students, and staff will vote for their favorites in categories such as: Most Creative Spookiest Funniest Best Family Theme Winners will be announced on October 27th and receive a small prize and bragging rights! We can't wait to see your family's pumpkin masterpiece! Let's make this a fun and festive celebration of fall together! Questions: Contact Jescie Pullinger jescie.pullinger@st-paul.pvt.k12.ia.us ********************************************************************************************* Student Hunger Drive The St. Paul can food drive goes through October. SPS is competing against the other area Catholic schools to see whom “can” bring in the most cans. Please send in cans to your child's homeroom class. Each day we will collect and record which class has brought in the most. ********************************************************************************************* Spiritual Refocusing The Eucharist is our greatest gift and the heart of our faith. As busy as life gets, let us recommit to making Sunday Mass the center of our week. In the Mass, we are strengthened by Christ, united as a family of faith, and reminded of what matters most. Mass Times Saturday Vigil: 4:30 pm Sunday: 9:00 am & 11:00 am Monday & Friday: 6:30 am Tuesday & Thursday: 8:30 am Wednesday: 5:30 pm First Saturdays: 8:30 am Rosary, Adoration & Confession Rosary: Monday - Friday, 6:00 am Adoration: Every Wednesday, 4:30 - 5:30 pm; First Friday of the month, 7:00am - 7:00pm Confession: Saturdays, 9:30 - 10:30 am ********************************************************************************************* Beginner Hockey with Quad City Hockey Association Register TODAY at www.quadcityhockey.com or click on this link 2025-26 One Goal (Nov-Dec) One Goal & Learn to Play every Monday starting 11/3/25-12/15/25 (No Session on 11/24/25) from 5:30-6:30pm at River’s Edge Ice Arena. NO EXPERIENCE NEEDED! Contact Allen Arndt at onegoal@quadcityhockey.com with questions QCHA Volunteers please register to help using Dibs Try Hockey for Free Flyer ********************************************************************************************* Hispanic Heritage Month Hispanic Heritage Month is a month-long celebration of Hispanic and Latino history and culture. While we celebrate Hispanic and Latino communities beyond this month, from September 15 to October 15 we give extra recognition to the many contributions made to the history and culture of the United States, including important advocacy work, vibrant art, popular and traditional foods, and much more. Hispanic Heritage Month provides an additional opportunity to explore the incredible impact Latinas and Latinos have had on the United States for generations. For the past few years each grade level classroom and specials subject have chosen a country or cultural event/item to learn more about with their students. Students work in small groups, create posters, research individuals, bring treats, sing songs and share what they have learned with one another. We will have a bi-lingual mass on October 14th to culminate this month-long celebration. ********************************************************************************************* Parish Directory Picture - Additional Dates! Goal: 100% of St. Paul the Apostle Families pictured in our new parish directory! When: October 13,14, and 15 , 2:00 PM - 8:30 PM Sign Up: https://schedule.ucdir.com/#/ Church Code: ia359 Password: photos ********************************************************************************************* Recess Volunteer Signup Sign up at one of the links below to volunteer at recess. Diocesan training and a background check is required prior to volunteering. These hours will count towards your home and school obligation. Email jescie.pullinger@st-paul.pvt.k12.ia.us or kelly.boche@st-paul.pvt.k12.ia.us for more information. 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